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Patrick Alexander

Patrick died this morning after fighting with everything he had; he died of a rare cancer of the liver. He had just turned 37 in June and was a few days short of his first wedding anniversary. Patrick was my father’s great nephew, and Robert Allen, Patrick’s father, was named for my father, his uncle.

When Daddy came home from the war, but before he was discharged, he was in Indianapolis and arrived late one night at his sister’s. Robert Allen remembers waking in the morning and his mother telling him they had company. They were a pair – the uncle and the nephew, the two Roberts; my mother once said, “Your dad took him everywhere.”

This is definitely not the right order of things, but it has happened. Patrick’s wife wrote on his CaringBridge site Patrick is in Heaven. I like to think that when he arrived his grandparents and my dad were there to pull him into their arms. And I can’t help feeling that my dad’s spirit is enveloping his beloved nephew.

A lifted photo with uplift

I lifted this photo from someone else’s blog. It’s around three years old and the little girl is now five. It’s titled D____ in Action and her image makes me smile with its spunk and zest for life. She started first grade yesterday. I think she’s going to have a grand time and I know her teachers and classmates now and to come will feel themselves fortunate to share her journey.

D in action

WordPress 3.6

At least I think it is 3.6 that I saw in the red typeface at the top of the page, nagging me to update. So, finally I did. Once it was done, which was almost immediately, a page popped up touting some of the new features to make your blog more interesting. Uh, who is going to update me? This is one of those moments when I purse my lips and my eyes shift from side to side as I ponder this question. Is there an answer somewhere? I’m taking a wild stab and saying no, I don’t think so. Well, maybe I could go scrub my face.

Another approaching fall in Kendallville

It is almost six in the morning and I do not see any lightening of the sky to the east. In June it was there, but not now. Of course, I knew this would happen, but still I have to brace myself for it here. Fall, unlike January 1st, has always seemed a new year to me – probably going back to my school days when we sat for that first day in our new school clothes. And it was not an unwelcome feeling and the shorter days brought more comfortable temperatures and then festive times such as Halloween and football and Thanksgiving and, of course, Christmas.

I just looked a a fall catalogue sent by The Yankee Candle Co., complete with scratch and sniff pictures of candles named Brown Sugar and Spice and Autumn Woods and advertising phrases, such as Wreaths of Welcome and The Joys of Autumn. It is a potentially cozy time of the year.

So why must I brace myself? Because as I grow older, I miss more than before, the early dawns – the day that calls out like a Horton’s Who: I am here; I am here. And then there is Kendallville, just a small town in Indiana. For some reason, and there is no good one, I have never been partial to towns ending in “ville” . . . but here I am, thinking, again for no good reason, that fall settling in would be more acceptable in a place named Oak Park or Bedford Falls or Terre Haute . . . or San Francisco.

Well, I could think not of Kendallville; I could think of fall at my alternate place. That would be Shipshewana. Oh, yeah.

We survived . . . but had to rest up

This is a view of just part of the dining room ceiling . . . and other rooms had balloons, as well.

balloons

We believe in the randomness of decoration . . . so we threw streamers up and over the chandelier and, well, some of them didn’t quite make it.

pointy head balloons

Helium may be one reason the balloons are hugging the ceiling, but the pointy hat might be a little motivating as well.

Summer got an electronic keyboard from her grandpa and along with wishes of Happy Birthday, there have been cries of EARPHONES!!!!.

Summer birthday

Seventeen years. That’s how old Summer is today. Usually, a lot of paragraphs that start this way continue with Remember when…. Why should this one be different? Remember when she was not as tall as the kitchen counter? Oh, yes. Remember when we went to her great-grandparents for Thanksgiving and she kept backing up against her great-grandpa’s legs so he would get the hint and lift her up to put the basketball through the hoop? This IS Indiana, don’tcha know.

Remember when she and her grandpa went and cut down out Christmas tree?
summer blog
Remember when she was a little adamant about not losing at Scrabble?
Remember when she ran into the garage and hugged her great-grandma around the knees from behind when the latter arrived for a visit?
Remember when she and I went through a car wash pretending we were being eaten by a monster and then when we reached the end of the conveyer belt ride and were rolled out, we realized we hadn’t thought this analogy out?

Well, let’s see what this day will bring . . .

Short legs

I just came back from a walk and I have decided their should be a Stride Factor numeric for people who have short legs. It is upsetting to have to take so many more steps than most people. I alternate between taking a lot of real fast short comfortable steps and a series of stretched out strides. Of course, it doesn’t matter as far as the benefit to fitness is concerned, but sometimes it’s a bummer.

I have toddler legs or, as some people are wont to say – duck legs. I notice in the summer when people are wearing shorts that many, many women are the same height as I am from head to the bottom of the torso – and then it’s a whole different story. In my case, a short one.

But, it’s not a real complaint; my legs work and have feet attached.